Tight Lacing, or Fashion Before Ease, John Collet, 1770-1775
In this article, Erin McCafferty asked: What was life like for a lady living in the 18th century? Unwilling to speculate, Erin decided to follow the schedule of a rich Dublin socialite named Mary Granville Pendarvis (1700-1788), who married Patrick Delany in 1743 and who was known for throwing glamorous parties. Later in life, she became a particular friend of King George III and Queen Charlotte. The article is full of insights that remind me a wee bit of Bridget Jones’s Diary:
Venturing out in the city centre proves problematic. Narrow doorways were not made for these types of dresses and getting on the bus is a nightmare; I get stuck in the doorway and I can’t sit down so I have to stand up taking up far too much space at rush hour. Mental note to self: Don’t walk to work when wearing 18th-century gown.
Mary is famous today for her botanical collages, which she began to make at the age of 72, and for her autobiography and correspondence. This is her description of Lord Hillsborough’s house party at his landed estate:
Lord Hillsborough is very well bred, sensible and entertaining, and nothing could be more polite that he was to all his company. Sally and I being the only women, we had the principal share of his address; he is handsome and genteel … we were twelve in company … Lord Hillsborough was very merry and said a great many lively and comical things … After the ladies had given their toasts they were desired to `command the house’; the hint was taken and I said I would upon that liberty go and prepare the tea-table for the gentlemen. Sally and I took a little step out into the garden to look at the prospect, but the weather soon drove us back. Candles lighted, tea-table and gentlemen soon came together. I made the tea. Cribbage was proposed, and I consented to be of the party, thinking it would be some relief to Lord Hillsborough; at ten we went to supper, at eleven to bed; met at nine the next morning at breakfast.
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Mary Delany, Barber portrait
Click here to read the article: How I Lived for A Week as an 18th Century Noble Woman, Erin McCafferty, The Independent
- Click here to read Mary Delany’s biography and Chapters 4 & 7 of her book
- Mary Delany: Biography and two of the 1,000 flower collages she produced, British Museum
- Autobiography and Correspondence of Mary Granville, Mrs. Delany, published in 1862, Google book
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Thank you, what a brilliant article. I was just reading all about Mrs Delany in the Life of Laetitia Pilkington; she was very much part of the clique of poets and wits that attached themselves to Jonathan Swift.
Ooo what a good find! I always am salivating over records of the daily lives of aristocratic women.
Interesting post as usual! I’m going to read Erin’s article next, sounds fun and comical too!
I have something of a Mrs Delany obsession! I’ve been reading a collection of her letters put together by R.Brimely Johnson. She;s so fascinating! As a crafter I love reading about her projects, as a designer her descriptions of the clothes and because every one loves gossip I love everything else!
First museum exhibition centered around Mrs. Delany opening soon!
See here:
http://ycba.yale.edu/exhibitions/exhibition_future.asp