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Cassandra Austen: Jane’ confidante, supporter and helpmate

October 4, 2009 by Vic

My dear Cassandra, Where shall I begin? Which of all my important nothings shall I tell you first? – Jane Austen, June 15, 1808

Cassandra Elizabeth AustenWhenever we catch sight of Jane Austen in recollections and letters, her sister Cassandra is usually not far away. Although the two spinster women were frequently separated by visits to their friends and relatives, they shared a bedroom all their lives and presumably each others’ thoughts and secrets. Cassandra was separated from the family in her crucial formative years as a baby. After her birth, Mrs. Austen breast fed her first daughter for three months before handing her over to a village woman to be cared for until she was 18 months of age. The Austens, it seemed, followed this unusual habit with all their children, which must have worked well for them, for all eight survived in an age when child mortality was high.

Cassandra's silhouette

Cassandra's silhouette

Two years after Cassandra’s birth, the Austens were blessed with a second daughter, Jane. Wherever Cassandra went, Jane followed. When 10-year-old Cassandra was sent off to boarding school in 1783, 8-year-old Jane demanded to go, refusing to be separated from her older sister…

…not because she was thought old enough to profit much by the instruction there imparted, but because she would have been miserable (at home) without her sister; her mother observing that ‘if Cassandra were going to have her head cut off, Jane would insist on sharing her fate. – Constance Hill, Jane Austen, Her Homes and Her Friends

Visits played an important part of Regency life and we have the frequent separations between Jane and Cassandra – who was often called to Godmarsham Park to help with her widowed brother Edward’s brood of children – to thank for their prolific correspondence. The letters between the two sisters reveal the intimate details of ordinary life, talking of purchasing ribbons and refashioning clothes or sending gifts. The sisters might well have written about more earth shattering events, but we shall never know, for Cassandra burnt or destroyed so much of Jane’s correspondence in 1843. The letters that do remain provide us with a glimpse into their relationship:

I saw some gauzes in a shop in Bath Street yesterday at only 4s. a yard, but they were not so good or so pretty as mine. Flowers are very much worn, and fruit is still more the thing. – 1799

and

I cannot possibly oblige you by not wearing my gown, because I have it made up on purpose to wear it a great deal, and as the discredit will be my own, I feel the less regret. You must learn to like it yourself and make it up at Godmersham. – 1800

Cassandra and Jane in Becoming Jane

Cassandra and Jane in Becoming Jane

After moving to Chawton Cottage, Cassandra and Mrs. Austen took over most of the duties of the house and garden, allowing Jane to capitalize on the most fruitful period of her writing. Once settled in a routine, she polished off earlier drafts of Sense and Sensibility and Pride and Prejudice, getting them published, and began to write new novels. The Austen women made do with very little, always economizing. Caroline Austenn, their niece, wrote, “The house was well furnished, and it was altogether a comfortable and ladylike establishment. Tho’ I believe the mean which supported it were but small.” In Chawton Cottage, Cassandra mourned the women’s lack of complete self-sufficiency, noting, “We have not even so much as a cow.” Chawton villagers recorded that “the Austen’s manservant would walk up to Chawton House each day accompanied by Cassandra’s dog “Link”, who would carry home the pail of milk in his mouth.” (Maggie Lane, p. 19). It is evident from the letter Jane sent to Cassandra in 1816, that she was grateful for Cassandra’s housekeeping activities:

It had been a busy week, and I wanted a few days quiet, and exemption from the thought and contrivances which any sort of company gives. I often wonder how you can find time for all you do, in addition to the care of the house; and how good Mrs West could have written such books and collected so many hard words, with all her family cares, is still more a matter of astonishment! Composition seems to me impossible, with a head full of joints of mutton and doses of rhubarb. – Jane Austen, Sept 8

A Times Online article describes Greta Scacchi’s portrayal as Cassandra in Miss Austen Regrets “as a bedraggled bread baker, chicken plucker and general rural dogsbody.” But the fact was that without Cassandra’s physical, mental and emotional support, and her brothers’ contributions to their annual income, Jane would not have had the freedom to actively pursue her career as a writer.

Greta Scacchi as Cassandra reads Jane's letter

Greta Scacchi as Cassandra reads Jane's letter

An older Cassandra

An older Cassandra

After Jane died in Cassandra’s arms, one can only imagine how bereft the older sister must have felt for the remaining 28 years of her life. Like Elinor Dashwood, she held her emotions in check. When Cassandra’s short engagement to Thomas Fowle ended in tragedy, Jane worried over her sister’s restraint in grieving.  It is our tragedy that Cassandra chose not to follow a similar restraint in preserving Jane’s letters.  In 1843, Cassandra wrote on a bundle of Jane’s letters: “To be burned.” Of the letters that survived, her niece Caroline noted that a number had “portions cut out“.  How ironic that in the twilight of her life Cassandra destroyed the very letters that must have given her a great deal of comfort and made her laugh or cry, and that, for a very short while, brought her sister back to life during the long evening hours she spent alone.

Francis, Cassandra, Jane, and Charles were the Austen's youngest children.

Francis, Cassandra, Jane, and Charles were the Austen's youngest children.

More links about this topic:

  • The Death of a Fiance in Persuasion and The Constant Heart – The story of Cassandra and her fiance Thomas Fowle
  • The Destruction of Jane Austen’s Letters
  • Cassandra Austen: Jane Austen Centre Magazine
  • A Glimpse of Jane Austen at Work – Glimpse of Jane and Cassandra giggling and animated as they edit her novel.
  • A Glimpse of Jane Austen – Fanny Knatchbull’s impressions of her aunts Jane and Cassandra.
  • Cassandra Elizabeth Austen: Protector or Vandal of Jane Austen’s Legacy
  • Cassandra and Jane
  • Lane, Maggie. Jane Austen and Food, The Hambledon Press, London, 1995, ISBN 1 85285 124 4

Gentle reader: In honor of JASNA’s annual meeting in Philadelphia this week, this blog, Austenprose, and Jane Austen Today will be devoting posts to Jane Austen and her siblings. Look for new links each day.

  • Jane Austen’s Siblings – Rev. James Austen 1765-1819 – comprehensive information about James Austen on Austenprose
  • Jane Austen’s Siblings – Rev. Henry Austen – 1771 -1850 – Henry was Jane Austen’s favorite brother
  • Sir Francis William Austen: Glimpses of Jane’s sailor brother through letters
  • Edward Austen Knight: A tightwad or a man with heavy responsibilities?

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  1. on October 4, 2009 at 17:30 Maria Grazia

    I’ve always imagined Cassandra as Jane’s best friend, more than simply a sister, her best companion. But still can’t understand why she decided to burn Jane’s letters. Touching post. Thanks Vic.


  2. on October 5, 2009 at 04:38 Jane Austen’s Siblings – Rev. James Austen 1765-1819 « Austenprose

    […] Cassandra Austen: Jane’ confidante, supporter and helpmate […]


  3. on October 5, 2009 at 12:56 Joanna Go

    Thanks for this illuminating post on Cassandra, Vic. She and Jane were true confidantes to each other. They had no secrets from each other, it seems, and Cassandra really understood and valued Jane’s talents, hence her sacrifices to allow Jane’s writing to flourish. We must acknowledge that, even if we will never understand why she burned Jane’s letters. Perhaps such letters were more like pages from their diaries… just too intimate for anyone else but their own eyes.


  4. on October 6, 2009 at 06:40 Jane Austen’s Siblings – Rev. Henry Thomas Austen 1771-1850 « Austenprose

    […] Cassandra Austen: Jane’s confidante, supporter and helpmate […]


  5. on October 6, 2009 at 07:25 Twitted by ChawtonHouse

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  6. on October 6, 2009 at 23:27 Janeen

    I too think that the burned correspondence was equal to the pages of a diary for their eyes only. Oh well, it was never meant to be…


  7. on October 7, 2009 at 10:30 Edward Austen Knight: A tightwad or a man with heavy responsibilities? « Jane Austen’s World

    […] Cassandra Austen: Jane’s Supporter, Confidante, and Helpmate […]


  8. on October 7, 2009 at 16:16 Laura's Reviews

    It is touching how Jane and Cassandra had such a close sisterly bond. It is also great the Cassandra and her brothers helped as much as they could to allow Jane to write. I am grateful to them all. I just wish Cassandra would not have burned the letters . ..


  9. on October 8, 2009 at 01:58 Sir Francis William Austen: Glimpses of Jane’s sailor brother in letters « Jane Austen’s World

    […] Cassandra Austen: Jane’s Supporter, Confidante, and Helpmate […]


  10. on October 9, 2009 at 00:41 Dana Huff

    I have often wondered if there weren’t a touch of Jane and Cassandra in Marianne and Elinor and/or Elizabeth and Jane.


    • on October 10, 2009 at 14:49 Vic

      Apparently Elinor’s restraint was similar to Cassandra’s. Apart from that, I do not know, but I have often wondered the same thing as well.


  11. on October 9, 2009 at 05:20 Jane Austen’s Siblings – Charles John Austen 1779-1852 « Austenprose

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  12. on October 10, 2009 at 14:01 George Austen: Jane Austen’s almost invisible brother « Jane Austen’s World

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  13. on October 10, 2009 at 14:16 George Austen: Jane Austen’s almost forgotten, invisible brother « Jane Austen’s World

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  14. on October 11, 2009 at 05:20 Jane Austen Biographies – Guided by Reason « Austenprose

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  16. on November 18, 2009 at 12:57 Fashions During Cassandra Austen’s Lifetime (1773-1845) « Jane Austen's World

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