Dear Readers, Happy Holidays! If you happen to stand under a sprig of mistletoe (these days it is most likely artificial), you will probably hug or kiss the person standing nearest you. This tradition did not appear in English literature until the 18th century. The practice of gathering mistletoe began in the second century BC with the Druids in ancient Britain. They gathered the parasitic plant at the start of winter from the sacred oak as a symbol of hope, peace, and harmony. Sprigs were hung in homes to herald good fortune. The plants were also used for medicinal purposes to promote female fertility and as an antidote for poison. Today we associate mistletoe boughs with Christmas. Gathered on this page are a few quotes from various sources.
Illustrated London News, Dec 20, 1851
The Mistletoe Season
Down South for the past month all the boys and girls who want to earn money have been gathering mistletoe.
Weeks before the Christmas-time, these young people begin to hunt the woods for mistletoe. Having found it, they watch it growing. If they find that some one else watching the same bunch, they announce it is their mistletoe.
The mistletoe grows on the tree, but is no more a part of the tree than the moss with which Northern children are familiar, or vines that climb up the outside of the tree. The mistletoe grows high up in the tree and, if out on a slender branch, must be reached after with a stick and pulled off gently. Even then it is not out of danger, for the beauty is marred if the little plant falls to the ground. – New outlook, Volume 52, edited by Alfred Emanuel Smith, Francis Walton Outlook Publishing Company, Inc., U.S., 1895, p. 1146
Mistletoe sprigs decorated chandeliers, doorways, and ceilings.
A ball of mistletoe, ornamented with ribbons, would be hung around Christmastime, and no unmarried girl could refuse a kiss if she was underneath it. At every kiss, the boy would pluck one of the mistletoe berries, and when there were no more berries, the ball was taken down until the next year. If a girl didn’t receive a mistletoe kiss by the time the ball was taken down, she couldn’t expect to marry in the following year. So the kiss could be a promise of marriage or a symbol of admiration, but it was also a kind of mystical fortune-telling trick. – Apartment Therapy – History of the Mistletoe
Gathering mistletoe in Nomandy
The best time for gathering mistletoe is in November after a few frosts have fallen and before the sap freezes, though it may be gathered and used at any period of the year. When gathered it should at once be spread out to dry as it will mould in a very short time if kept in a box or sack. It is best to dry it in the shade. – United States medical investigator, 1878, p 132.
Kiss under the mistletoe
Mistletoe grew in England and the United States. The common mistletoe of England grew on orchard trees and forest trees, and seldom on oak trees, which is why Druids revered it for its rarity. Mistletoe sapped the strength of apple trees in Brittany and Normandy. There it was gathered for the London market. The American mistletoe grows on deciduous trees, especially the tupelo poplar and red maple, from New Jersey, southern Indiana and east Kansas, to the Gulf. – The Standard reference work: for the home, school and library, Volume 5, edited by Harold Melvin Stanford Standard Education Society, 1921
Mr Fezziwig's ball, John Leech, A Christmas Carol by Dickens
By the Victorian era, there was scarcely a house or cottage that did not have mistletoe at Christmas time.
Down with the rosemary, and so,
Down with the baies and Mistletoe;
Down with the holly, ivie, all,
Wherewith ye dressed the Christmas Hall.
19th c. mistletoe gatherer
The damsel donn’d her kirtle sheen;
The hall was dress’d with holly green,
Forth to the wood did merry men go
To gather in the Mistletoe.”
– English botany, or, coloured figures of British plants, Volume 4, By James Sowerby G. Bell, 1873
Kiss under the mistletoe
Jane Austen's World 
Very interesting post. Happy Christmas to you too!
We never used mistletoe in our family celebrations, so I never gave much thought to it. I am glad to learn about the history of mistletoe.
Merry Christmas!
Nanina
I grew up in Louisville, Kentucky, along the Ohio River. Mistletoe grows in abundance throughout the region and was always available at Christmastime. Children in my neighborhood used to try to knock down large bunches of it using slingshots. Although Louisville is prolific with mistletoe, none grows on the opposite side of the river, in New Albany, even though the climate is identical. This is presumably because the kind of birds that ingest the berries do not fly far from home (the river is the better part of a mile wide at that point).
Happy Christmas!
Medicinal mistletoe here:
http://www.biomedcentral.com/1471-2407/9/451
In the country towns of Piedmont Virginia, folks would bring holly, “running cedar”, and mistletoe and sell it on the street from the hoods of their vehicles! My brother and I discovered a “crop” of mistletoe growing on some old oak trees on a abandoned farm. We were really happy to discover it so close to the ground because the only other ways of getting it was by climbing the tree or shooting it out! My mother (a native Virginian) always had to have mistletoe in her Christmas greens.
My Dad used to go hunting near to Christmas and always looked out for the mistletoe to be shot down for our house, I remember him kissing my mother under it. I try to have it in my house every year but, alas, I couldn’t find it this year, so the kissing will have happen spontaneously!
Karen, According to an article in Thursday’s New York Times (12- 22 -11), Style Section, most mistletoe sold commercially comes from Texas (ironic, something involving “love” from Texas!) – anyway the drought conditions have really affected the trees containing the plant! Just thought you might be interested. I know of two places here in Virginia suburbia where it usually grows in a swampy area – but I didn’t see much in driving by this year.
Here in west Texas (and I don’t see what’s ironic Tom ;) it grows profusely on Honey Mesquite trees. Doesn’t seem to bother this very hardy, drought tolerant tree. I’ve read ranchers feed it to cattle when other types of feed are scarce.